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June 15th, 2010 | 
Author: As a former Pastoral Counselor I can confidently say that one of the biggest mistakes made by Christians is thinking they can convert a non-Christian into a Christian simply by having an intimate relationship. Yes, we are to be a light in the world for non-Christians but it is beyond our earthly power to convert someone to our faith either with words or direct action on our part.
We must be extremely careful to avoid trying to do the job of the Holy Spirit.
It is the Holy Spirit who draws someone to the Christian faith. This “draw” may lead to a deeply personal decision that cannot be coerced by our logical arguments. There is a saying: “A person convinced against their will is of the same opinion still.” This is never more true when applied to matters of the Christian faith.
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What do you do when you just went through a bitter divorce and now you find yourself on the single scene once again?? Where do you start? How do you meet women again?
Do you know how to properly approach beautiful women? Sometimes, it appears that the times have drastically changed since you were last single. How do you begin anew?
In the article “Dating Tips For Men In Relationships – Part I,” I spoke briefly about the new set of rules that men have to learn once they’ve entered a serious relationship. Many members of this community, the “newbies” and “seduction gurus” alike, seem to forget that learning how to maintain a relationship with a woman is just as important as learning how to build one, so I’ve decided write a second article on the subject, packed with more tips that will help you hold on to that special girl.
• Manage expectations. You might think that you’re impressing her by picking her up in a limo and taking her to the fanciest restaurant in town on the first date, but what you’re really doing is creating tension. From then on, she’s going to assume that you’ll always go on dates that are expensive and grand with her, and you’re going to feel pressure to live up to the unreachable expectations you established. Don’t set expectations too high at the outset of a relationship, so that you can easily exceed them as time goes on.
Do you know how the word’s greatest seduction gurus got to where they are today?
By making mistakes.
No man, even those we call “naturals,” learns how to succeed with women without screwing it up every once in a while. You can read all of the dating tips for men that you can get your hands on, but in the long run you’ll never figure out what works and what doesn’t until you’ve experimented, made a million mistakes, and learned from them.
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